But unlike death and the universe’s size, picking a life partner is fully in your control, so it’s critical to make yourself entirely clear on how big a deal the decision really is and to thoroughly analyze the most important factors in making it. I’m pretty sure no one over 80 reads Wait But Why, so no matter who you are, that’s a of time—and almost the entirety of the rest of your one existence.(Sure, people get divorced, but you don’t think you will.The irony is that the only rational fear we Externally-Influenced Ed lets other people play way too big a part in the life partner decision.The choosing of a life partner is deeply personal, enormously complicated, different for everyone, and almost impossible to understand from the outside, no matter how well you know someone.No, when it comes to dating, society frowns upon thinking too much about it, instead opting for things like relying on fate, going with your gut, and hoping for the best.If a business owner took society’s dating advice for her business, she’d probably fail, and if she succeeded, it would be partially due to good luck—and that’s how society wants us to approach dating.The respectable way to meet a life partner is by dumb luck, by bumping into them randomly or being introduced to them from within your little pool.
Still, if it were me, I’d rather adopt children with the right life partner than have biological children with the wrong one.
This is logical, because that’s the way you proceed when you want to do something well and minimize mistakes.